Frequently Asked Questions about Finding a Spiritual Director

How do I find a Spiritual Director?

  • Reach out to Exponent Group to get connected to an Exponent Group endorsed Spiritual Director
  • Ask any pastors/ministry leaders/spiritual mentors in your geographical area or theological tradition for recommendations
  • There are several networks of spiritual directors you can find through searching online. Here are a couple networks of directors to help begin your search:
  • Sustainable Faith
  • Flourishing Leaders
  • Exponent Group does not specifically endorse or recommend anyone in the networks listed above – they are merely resources for your own discernment. 

How long is a spiritual direction session?

 Usually a spiritual direction session is once a month for 50 minutes to 1 hour.

Do spiritual directors charge for sessions?

Yes. Spiritual directors are trained and experienced listeners. Typically fees for spiritual direction range between $50-$150, depending on the spiritual director. There are many who ask just for donations or as you are able. You want to be sure to clarify the costs of sessions with the spiritual director before beginning sessions.

How do I choose the right spiritual director?

It might be helpful to have a consultation call with two to three directors before making a decision. Here are some questions to consider as you prayerfully discern:

  • What am I struggling to discern in prayer? What do I need most from God right now?
  • Is geographic location important?
  • Is there a certain theological background or ministry experience I am looking for in a director? 

What questions should I ask a spiritual director during a consultation call?

It might be helpful to have a consultation call with two to three directors before making a decision. Here are some questions to consider as you prayerfully discern:

  • What is your ministry background?
  • What is your prayer life like?
  • What do typical sessions look like? 
  • What common questions do you ask in spiritual direction?  
  • Who most influenced the formation of your prayer practice? Your view of direction? 

Are you interested in finding a spiritual director? Take a step towards a more meaningful and fulfilling spiritual journey with God. Reach out to Exponent Group to get connected to a spiritual director.

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